1 Meal A Day

Dr. Deborah Abeles digs into why eating less doesn’t always help weight loss, later in life

January 26, 2026
A middle-aged woman staring unenthusiastically at a tomato slice on her fork.

Do you remember your twenties? You could eat whatever you wanted, skip meals and somehow stay the same weight. Eating one meal a day was easy, and the scale barely moved. Fast forward ten or fifteen years and suddenly the same approach doesn’t work. You go back to one meal a day, hoping for results, but instead, the weight creeps up. What changed?

 

The truth is, our bodies change as we age, even if we don’t notice it day to day. In your twenties, your metabolism was naturally faster. Muscle mass was higher, hormones were optimal, and energy burned at rest – the so-called basal metabolic rate (BMR) – was higher. Skipping meals or eating once a day was possible because your body could handle the long fasts without slowing down.

 

Now, your metabolism is slower than it used to be. Lean muscle mass naturally declines with age unless you actively maintain it with strength training. Muscle burns more calories at rest than fat, so when you lose even a small amount of muscle, your daily calorie needs drop.

Eating only one meal a day can actually backfire: your body senses a long period without food and slows metabolism to conserve energy.

Hormones that regulate hunger and fat storage—like leptin, ghrelin, and insulin—can get out of balance, making you hungrier when you finally eat and more likely to store fat.

 

Another factor is that as we get older, the body becomes more sensitive to blood sugar spikes. Eating one large meal after a long fast often causes a rapid rise in blood sugar and insulin. High insulin signals the body to store energy as fat, particularly around the belly. So the same meal that once “worked” now triggers more fat storage than it did in your twenties.

 

Stress, sleep, and lifestyle also play bigger roles. Poor sleep, chronic stress, and modern sedentary habits can all slow metabolism, increase appetite, and make it harder to lose weight—even if your diet looks similar to what you did in your youth.

So why does one meal a day often stop working? It’s not because you’ve failed. It’s because your body has changed, and what worked in your twenties is no longer aligned with your current metabolism and hormonal environment.

 

The takeaway is simple: losing weight is not just about eating less; it’s about working with your body, not against it. Focus on nutrient-dense meals, enough protein to protect muscle, regular movement, and steady eating patterns that support metabolism. This approach takes longer than a one-meal trick, but it actually works—and it’s sustainable.

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